I always believed that a woman stepping out of the house all done up sexy is not just because of her desire to beautiful for herself, but also for the attention of men. Wearing those revealing tops that show off the breast to wearing those pants and skirts that show off the butt I have never believed is just for a woman’s want to feel beautiful.
Women are often seeking the attention of men, whether married or not. Ayesha Curry is proof of that despite being married to one of the riches athlete, Stephen Curry. Ayesha’s heart is still not full. She speaks of not getting looks from men as her husband gets from women. From USA Today:
“Something that really bothers me, and honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity, is the fact that yeah, there are all these women, like, throwing themselves (at him), but me, like the past 10 years, I don’t have any of that,” she said. “I have zero – this sounds weird – but, like, male attention, and so then I begin to internalize it, and I’m like, ‘Is something wrong with me?’ ”
In her Red Table talk with Jada Smith, Ayesha goes on to say that she just wants to know that someone finds her hot and is checking her out. Some on social media agreed with Ayesha and then you have some that disagree with her desire for a man to check her out. Some of the comments goes in one user saying:
Ayesha is married to a great man that she has kids with…but is worried bout not getting male attention.
Then another wrote:
Having strangers compliment you make you feel good every now and then. I’m in a secure relationship but others acknowledging me being pretty or smart makes me feel good.
Thoughts? Do you sometimes just want men outside to compliment your beauty or is this not needed for you to feel hot ?